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After Loss

How to cope with loosing your pet.

When losing a pet, acknowledge your grief as valid, allow yourself to feel emotions like sadness and guilt without shame, and find support from understanding friends, family, or pet loss hotlines, while also creating memorials or new routines to honor your pet's life and care for your own physical and emotional needs through self-care.

If you require anymore assistance please contact the association of pet bereavement counsellors:  https://apbcounsellors.co.uk/

Acknowledge Your Grief & Feelings

Validate your emotions:

Pets are cherished members of the family, and the bond you shared was special. It’s natural that your loss feels significant.

Allow yourself to feel:

Don't suppress sadness; crying is normal. It's also okay to feel guilt, which often accompanies loss.

Expect waves:

Grief isn't linear; expect ups and downs, and don't rush your healing.

Seek Support & Connection

Talk to understanding people:

Share memories with friends, family, or other pet owners who "get it".

Find online resources:

Use pet loss websites, support groups, or hotlines (like the RSPCA or Pet Compassion Careline) for trained counselors.

Honor Your Pet's Memory

Create a memorial:

Make a memory box, photo album, or scrapbook, plant a tree, or share stories online to celebrate your pet’s life and the special moments you shared.

Establish rituals:

A small ceremony, burying them in a special spot, or scattering ashes can help mark the loss.

Volunteer:

Donating in their memory or helping other animals can be a meaningful way to keep their love alive.

Practice Self-Care & New Routines

Be gentle with yourself:

Be gentle with yourself: Take things one step at a time and allow yourself the space to rest, reflect, and heal.

Maintain physical health:

Try to eat well, stay active, and get enough rest, even if it feels difficult during challenging times.

Adjust routines:

Change walk times or locations to cope with reminders and fill the void.

Navigate Guilt & Future Decisions

Let go of guilt:

Try to focus on the life and love you shared with your pet, rather than the final moments. Remember that their pain has now passed.

Don't rush a new pet:

Decide on a new companion when you're ready, not before, to allow time to heal.

After Loss

How to cope when a child looses a pet.

When a child loses a pet, offer honest, simple explanations about death, validate their strong emotions, and create special rituals to honor the pet, like memory boxes or ceremonies, to help them process grief, maintain connection, and understand that their memories will last even as the pain fades. Encourage talking, drawing, or writing about happy times, provide lots of comfort, and maintain routines to help them cope with the significant loss, as grieving a pet can be very hard for a child. 

If you require anymore assistance please contact the association of pet bereavement counsellors:  https://apbcounsellors.co.uk/